What cognitive distortions are
Cognitive distortions are habitual shortcuts in thinking that make situations look worse, more certain or more personal than the facts support. Psychiatrist Aaron Beck described them in the 1960s while developing cognitive therapy, and psychiatrist David Burns later popularized a list of them in his book Feeling Good. Everyone uses them sometimes; they become a problem when they run automatically and keep feeding anxiety, low mood or anger.
The goal is not to think positively. It is to notice the pattern, check the thought against the evidence, and land on a version that is both honest and fair to you.